Mistakes = Clarity
Ever find yourself saying "yes" to something you didn't really want to do? We've all been there. For example, agreeing to plans that leave you drained and wondering why you did it in the first place. But those blunders can be your golden tickets to gaining some serious mindset muscle, clarity about life, and how you want to show up going forward.
This month I am so excited to launch my latest book, Let It Go where I take a very personal spin on tracking my joy, and I have to tell you, I’ve learned so much about how to extract the gold inside of all my past mistakes. Through mistakes, reflection, and calling in a community of guides, I taught myself how to let go with intention.
Here are four ways writing my latest book showed me how to do just that:
1.Turn Oops Moments into Aha Moments
It’s impossible to change what we don’t look at. One thing I learned about myself is that I value time alone, not just here and there, but on a daily basis. I need pockets of time to recharge. But I still found myself slipping up, accepting invites that I shouldn’t have said yes to. So, when you reluctantly say "yes" and later regret it, don't beat yourself up. Those missteps are actually your secret trackers for personal growth.
2.Spot the Patterns
Take a closer look at those moments gone wrong. You'll notice some recurring themes. Maybe you're a people-pleaser, or perhaps you have a knack for putting yourself last. These patterns are like treasure maps leading you to the heart of your values. I totally raise my hand here!
3.Make Wise Moves from Oops Moments
Remember, mistakes aren't just blunders; they're like cheat codes for life. Each "yes" that left you overwhelmed? That's your wisdom in disguise. Track this wisdom and find ways to share it (just like I’m doing with this blog post).
4.Build Your Roadmap to Clarity
Peek in the Mirror: Spend some time reflecting on your mishaps. What do they have in common? What made you say "yes" when you meant "no"?
Pattern Recognition: As you reflect, you'll start to see patterns emerge. Maybe you always say yes because you fear letting people down or crave approval. Note the patterns and explore these as insights about who you are or who you are becoming.
Setting Boundaries: Now that you've got the lowdown, it's time to set some boundaries. Say no when you mean it and when it feels right. Learning to say no is a game-changer. It lets you focus on what truly matters and gives you the freedom to be yourself.
If there’s one thing I’ve learned over the course of writing this book, it’s that mistakes aren't dead ends; they're pit stops on your journey to self-discovery and clarity. So, embrace those blunders. They could be your compass guiding you toward a more genuine and fulfilling life. Don't fear the oops moments; they might just be the key to finding your way.
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